We avoid difficult conversations not because we lack the words, but because we fear what those words might change. Here’s what silence is actually costing us — and how to find the courage to speak.
An integrated model for navigating high-stakes conversations with clarity, integrity, and commitment.
Most frameworks sound good in theory but collapse under real pressure. When power dynamics are uneven, emotions run high, or outcomes are uncertain, people don’t need abstract advice–they need an anchor they can actually remember and use. Our “Im ei boat on the CCCCs” model turns complexity into something tangible and practical. It’s a clear framework that works across the personal and professional space- broad context, specific situation. It’s designed for the conversations we avoid, delay, or fear- because it gives us a way to enter into them with intention.
This overall Framework will incorporate our 3 independent Frameworks:
The Commitment Framework (IMEI):
The Self-management Framework (The Boat):
The Engagement Framework (The CCCCs)
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When something is important or interesting to us, it can be easy to forget that other people do not see things through our eyes. For another human to engage in what you care about, it is important to explore their perspective on the topic.
This framework reminds us of the many levers we have to adjust when sharing our knowledge to make the message meaningful and sticky to the recipient, rather than to us, reflecting on:
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The above is a workshop outline only and is designed to be flexibly tailored to the participants. It can be delivered in a general context or be a focused workshop with a specific group or goal in mind. It can also be delivered alongside other Frameworks offered by eNayble, or in a complete ‘Complex Conversations’ delivery. Please note that talks will provide theoretical overviews and will not allow for interactive activities in the same scope as workshops.
Complex situations come with little that is certain… That’s why we find them complex. In these precarious circumstances, one of the few things that we have both control over and expertise into is ourselves. Knowing ourselves – our beliefs and behaviours – is half the battle.
This framework identifies four key components that we as individuals can work on to ensure that we bring our most equipped selves into these conversations:
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The above is a workshop outline only and is designed to be flexibly tailored to the participants. It can be delivered in a general context or be a focused workshop with a specific group or goal in mind. It can also be delivered alongside other Frameworks offered by eNayble, or in a complete ‘Complex Conversations’ delivery. Please note that talks will provide theoretical overviews and will not allow for interactive activities in the same scope as workshops.
Commitment is a huge part of any successful relationship. What each of us considers important will vary significantly, and often while we mean well, we don’t take the time to really understand other people’s needs and priorities.
This framework characterises four different perspectives to explore to help us recognise what is valuable for our stakeholders:
The session will include:
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The above is a workshop outline only and is designed to be flexibly tailored to the participants. It can be delivered in a general context or be a focused workshop with a specific group or goal in mind. It can also be delivered alongside other Frameworks offered by eNayble, or in a complete ‘Complex Conversations’ delivery. Please note that talks will provide theoretical overviews and will not allow for interactive activities in the same scope as workshops.
An integrated approach for understanding and working with grief with honesty, connection, and care.
The word Grief is taboo, for all kinds of reasons. Its association with weakness, shame, loss and pain leave it an unspoken period in most people’s lives. And yet it is one of the few experiences all humans are likely to have, and not just once, in the modern world where we are faced with so much challenge and change. It is also a human experience that benefits from connection, which instead we avoid.
FiLaGrie aims to transform the cultural conversation around Grief, utilising performance to eNayble users to interact, reflect and connect in safe and creative ways, while exploring Grief and how it affects each of us differently. It provides a safe, sometimes funny, and always optimistic space to get to know this thing called Grief together, so that it may become less scary and easier to share. We explore the Fine Layers of Grief.
FiLaGrie recognises that while the linear 5 Stages of Grief often referenced are useful
The experience is more likely to feel like the Fine Layers of Grief, or a FiLaGrie.
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Recommended duration: Workshop –2-4 hours
The above is a workshop outline only and is designed to be flexibly tailored to the participants. It can be delivered in a general context or be a focused workshop with a specific group or goal in mind. It can also be delivered alongside other Frameworks offered by eNayble, or in a complete ‘Complex Conversations’ delivery. Please note that talks will provide theoretical overviews and will not allow for interactive activities in the same scope as workshops.
